Betrayal Healing Intensive: Are we there yet?

Join the waiting list to be informed at the next retreat date and location

This past Fall 2024, we had an intimate gathering of 8-12 women who have been healing after betrayal for over one year. This was a therapeutic group experience that encompassed teaching, healthy discussions, and connection among the women that were able to attend. Group discussions were led by trauma-informed Licensed Therapist, Emily Funderburk, LCMHC.

Five years after the release of her book, Through the Storm: Helping Marriages Find Healing After Hurt, Emily will bring her knowledge of betrayal trauma to help attendees:

(1) organize the stuck places they are still facing;

(2) celebrate their survival story;

(3) connect to other women that have a similar but unique story;

(4) develop a renewed sense of hope for their future

We had a sacred time together at this gorgeous house rental right on the beach and took advantage of all the comfort and beauty the salt air provides while connecting with new faces.

Weekend itinerary Example

Thursday

Check in after 1pm
You Time at the Beach
Hor’s de vours + Introductions
Dinner
Workshop #1: Are We There Yet?

Friday

Breakfast
Workshop #2: Internal Sightseeing (Mind & Body Awareness)
You Time at the Beach
Lunch Gathering
Workshop #3: Flooded with Memories + Reminders
You Time at the Beach
Dinner
Workshop #4: Who Am I…After All This?

Saturday

Breakfast
Workshop #5: My Heart says “Slow Down”
You Time at the Beach
Lunch Gathering
Workshop #6: Finding Strength + Receiving Love
You Time at the Beach
Dinner
Workshop #7: Holding on to Hope

Sunday

You Time at the Beach
Breakfast + Reflection
Check out at 10am

*schedule subject to change

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Interested in joining us for the next one?

Women’s 3-Day Healing Event: Are We There Yet?

I am currently planning our next healing weekend. Reach out for more information if you are interested to stay updated on the dates/location of the next event.

Pricing estimate - our last weekend experience was $1695 and included 7 therapist-led workshops with an accompanying workbook, group discussions, swag bag full of items to give you tools for healing success and comfort. Private bedroom & bathroom for each participant. Along with all meals were included except for one social dinner night out.

This event has been designed so that you feel cared for, gain knowledge as you heal, share what you are comfortable sharing, and to build connection among women who struggle with where they can go to open up about their betrayal recovery journey.

*Email innerfreedomintiative@gmail.com to let me know you are interested in joining us at an upcoming event.

current participants share why they are registered:

“I registered because…”

“I registered for this retreat because I long for healing and community. When life gets ”this kind” of messy, even people closest to you scatter. This is one of the loneliest times in my life. I also wanted to be around other women so we could build each other up and know we are not on this journey alone.”

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“I kept his secret hidden and worked toward healing without any support from friends or family. I registered for this event because I want to be in a place where I can be my true self and let down my guard.”

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“I want to feel seen, heard, and understood and I know that this will be a beautiful weekend filled with tools and resources I can take with me to continue my healing. There is hope and healing to be shared amongst these ladies who truly understand in a way that most people in my life cannot”

“I registered because…”

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“It is comforting to know that although I don’t wish this pain on anyone, that we are not alone. That coming together in this way can provide healing and hope for all of us. I know the power of listening and sharing and the miracles that can take place when groups of women come together to support each other in a safe place.”

“I registered because…”

“I registered because Emily’s expertise and God-given talent helped my husband and I to reach the other side of betrayal. Along the way I often wondered, “Are we there yet?”, but today, our marriage is like brand new!

Even now, though, doubts may try to creep in, and that’s why this retreat is so important - to continue the journey of healing.”

“I registered because…”

“My husband‘s infidelity took so much from me. I registered for this retreat because it is something I can do just for myself. I am finally in a place where I recognize that I deserve to heal and I am seeking connection and peace in this chapter of my life.”

Frequently Asked Questions

Please reach us at innerfreedominitiative@gmail.com if you cannot find an answer to your question.

Will I have a room to myself?

Our beautiful house rental has 8 private Queen Bedrooms that each have their own bathroom. We hope this gives you privacy to allow you to truly experience a retreat that balances time to yourself and time to gather with others.

If you are bringing a friend and are interested in sharing a room, we can provide you with a discounted price.

There is a 9th bedroom with 4 beds that will be reserved for the ladies that are taking care of our meals and hospitality.

Is this a Christian Event?

This retreat is primary focused on helping women to feel connected and supported on their recovery journey. There will also be times during the retreat where we will incorporate prayer and share how faith has played a role in recovery. Faith topics will be touched on during this retreat and are welcomed to be brought up. All discussions will be done in a safe manner respectful of where people are at in their faith.

If I live far away and want to fly in, what area should I fly into?

Surf City, NC is 42-minutes from the Wilmington airport. You will also need to get transportation from the airport to our retreat. As we get closer to the retreat date we will see if people are interested in carpooling together.

Is everything planned out or will I have free time?

We will have an agenda for each day but will include free time before morning sessions, after lunch, and in the evening. We hope this allows you time to just enjoy a walk on the beach, a soak in the hottub, or time to relax on the swing on the top deck.

Can you accomodate food allergies?

Yes! Please email us to let us know if you have any allergies or sensitivities that we need to be aware of when preparing meals.

Will alcohol be present during this retreat?

This 3-day event is focusing on our overall health and mental wellbeing and is tobacco and alcohol free.

Will everything I share be kept confidential?

We take confidentiality seriously as each person has a tender story they are bringing with them. All information shared will be kept confidential and that will be stressed to all attendees.

Betrayal Healing Intensive: Are we there yet?

Join the waiting list to be informed at the next retreat date and location

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Interested in joining us for the next one?

Women’s 3-Day Healing Event: Are We There Yet?

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Frequently Asked Questions

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